It’s exhilarating to be young. The future is an exciting and frightening unknown. My
students have not yet written what will come, but they are finding their legs
in this world and walking along a path unique to them. As they head off into a world
that can be both beautiful and tragic, I want them to remember so much. But I know they can hardly remember to take their backpacks on their way out the door, so I better write these things down. Here are 10 things I hope my eighth graders will remember.
1)
Keep writing. Maybe it’s a journal, or the beginning of a novel each November,
or a few poems when you feel like the world doesn’t understand you. Maybe it’s
a blog or a tumblr or tweets, but keep writing. You have a story to tell and
the world needs more stories like yours. Your story might just save someone.
Writing your story might save you.
2)
Keep reading. Ok, for some of you this may be start reading, but hopefully you will read and read often. I hope
you will read to learn, to work your brain, and to escape. Read new books and
reread favorites. Read books that challenge your thinking and make you see the
world differently. Talk with friends about books. Set goals for your reading
and plan what books you want to read. Then, keep a list of the books you’ve
read so you can say, yes, I did that.
3)
Keep questioning. Think critically but not cynically. Think about the validity
of your sources whether that source be an author, a teacher, a professor, a friend, a
girl/boyfriend. Try to understand where people are coming from, but also decide if you agree with them. Use your critical
thinking skills and establish your own independent thoughts.
4)
Stay organized. Write down homework and projects and assignments every. single.
day. Clean out your binder, your
backpack, your desk, your room, your closet and your mind. Keep the things you
really need, but my rule is: if I haven’t used it or worn it in the past two
years, it’s gone. Also, leave some space for quiet in your life so you can hear
your thoughts. Close your eyes to the screens and sounds of the world and just
be.
5)
Keep believing. Believe in yourself and your abilities. Believe that if you
work hard, you can do anything. Believe in the best version of who you are and
strive for competitive greatness which Coach Wooden describes as “performing at
your best when your best is required. Your best is required each day.”
6)
Keep following your dreams. It is brave to hold on to the dreams of your
childhood, but hold on to your dreams and make plans to get you there. If your
dream is to make it to the NBA, do something every single day to help you get
there. If your dream is to go to UCLA, make a plan to help you get there which
might mean extra study sessions, finding a tutor or sacrificing something fun
to get that school project done. Find people who can help you and continue to
pursue your dream.
7)
Be resilient. The world is going to tell you “No.” “You can’t.” People will
doubt you and question your commitment and desire. Sometimes even those who
support you will not understand or know how to help. Don’t give up. Keep
pushing and pressing for what you want until life says, “Yes.”
8)
Work hard. Coach Wooden says, “There is no substitute for hard work. None.
Worthwhile things come only from hard work.” Some things come easier for some
people. When things look easy for others, it’s often because they have spent
hours working to make it appear easy. Life is not easy. Take pride in putting
in work.
9)
Find what you love to do and do it. Pursue it with enthusiasm and joy.
10) Be kind to yourself. Forgive yourself when you make mistakes. Learn from them and keep moving forward. Be kind to those around you. Don’t judge others too harshly because if the struggle is real, everyone is in it. Be kind.
10) Be kind to yourself. Forgive yourself when you make mistakes. Learn from them and keep moving forward. Be kind to those around you. Don’t judge others too harshly because if the struggle is real, everyone is in it. Be kind.
